10 Reasons She Dumped You
Recently, I notice an interesting poll when I was browsing through Men’s Health. The most common breakup reasons why women dumped men are as follows:
- He cheated on me
- We weren’t compatible
- He changed
When women end relationship, we always want a reason or two. We want to know what is the cause that make the break up. So, here are to name a few:
I am bored: Maybe you don’t make her feel the ride, so she doesn’t feel any spark between you two. Not adventurous enough I guess.
One of Us Was Too Serious: This could be as simple as she wanted to see me three times a week, and I only wanted to see him once a week. If he's flirting with other women, flighty, or not as into it as I am, then I'm too serious for him.
Burnout: I'm a big believer in pacing and rhythm in dating. A relationship can suffer burnout if certain milestones occur too fast: Being exclusive, sex, meeting parents. When that happens, I get that feeling the colonists must have gotten after they won the Revolutionary War: "Ok, we did it...so now what?"
I Was Tempted To Cheat: I do my best not to cheat, so when I have recurring urges to cheat on my boyfriend, I figure it's time to break up with him. I don't need to go through with cheating; the constant urge is enough for me to end things.
All My Friends Broke Up With Their Boyfriends: This is by far the most immature reason on this list. While my boyfriend and I are curled up on the couch watching "The Devil Wears Prada," my newly single boy friends are out shredding the karaoke waves with Journey's "Don't Stop Believin" and tearing up the town. That conflict gives me wanderlust. It's much easier when we are all in for a quiet Saturday night with the significant others.
Divergent Lives: If someone moves to another town, or work is taking over, or other life changes are driving you apart, sometimes it's best to end it.
Feeling Selfish: Dating is selfless because you're giving your time and yourself up to a relationship. "Me time" is necessary at some point to work on career/living situation, travel, or whatever. When I'm in a "selfish period," it's tough to participate in a relationship.
I "Misread" My Feelings: This is the most unfair of all the reasons. Both genders make this mistake—you get into a relationship and everything seems so great. Then, a few weeks later, you realize you got wrapped up in something for the wrong reason, dated for the sake of dating, or whatever, and you need to get out.
My Friends Or Family Didn't Like Him: I pay close attention to friend/family opinions because they know me best, and they've earned the right to have their say. Also, friends and family may be able to see things inside the relationship that I'm too blinded to see.
I Took Him For Granted: Great relationships should be easy, but there has to be some tension too—especially in the beginning. If it's too easy, there's a lack of challenge. If I feel like I could have her heart any time any place, sometimes I'll let him go. This almost always ends up coming back to haunt me later, though. I never learn.
He Was Too Negative: All too often, I end up with the brooding, depressed, uptight type who is constantly complaining. I don't expect someone to be happy all the time, but if he makes me unhappy every time I see him, why stay with him?
What reasons have women used to break up with you, and which make you most angry? What reasons have caused you to break up with women? Which reasons do you think are the most common cause of breakups- do they differ for guys and women?
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